461: Rebecca Newberger Goldstein | Exploring the Nature of Mattering In “The Mattering Instinct”

In this conversation, Armen Shirvanian and Dr. Rebecca Newberger Goldstein explore the concept of ‘mattering’, the intrinsic human desire to feel significant and valued, from her book The Mattering Instinct. They discuss the challenges of self-identity in a commodified world, the importance of social connections, and the various strategies individuals employ to find meaning in their lives.

Goldstein introduces her ‘mattering map,’ which categorizes different approaches to mattering, and emphasizes the need for genuine connections that foster creativity and personal growth. The conversation also touches on the philosophical implications of mattering, the role of entropy in our lives, and the moral responsibilities that come with our quest for significance.